observations:
each circle has a densely knit inner-group that is easiest to go to for planning hangs, making group chats, seeing each other at each other’s events
theory: one-off friends are harder to sustain, but as long as they 1) exist in a circle w a recurring hobby/event 2) have ties to at least one other friend it’s sustainable
my council of go-to crisis counselors come from all diff parts of my life, interesting bc they all know a slightly diff version of me
always trying to optimize for: [* triadic closure](Triadic Closure - an overview | ScienceDirect Topics) optimize against: [* context collapse](Context collapse - Wikipedia)